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My wonderful wife

February 17, 2009 Dan Leave a comment Go to comments

Karis is wonderful.  Those of you who know her already know this, but let me elaborate…  Last week was a difficult week for all of us – probably the most difficult in the six months that we’ve been here.  We were just wiped physically, emotionally, mentally… just drained, and I was actually handling it worse that Karis was.  You can read her post about it here.  I pretty much second everything she said there except for the fact that I’ve lost 30 pounds and would gladly take it all back to have a McDonalds here in Yaounde.  =D

At any rate, here’s what makes her so wonderful in the midst of all that.  On Saturday we had to do all sorts of stuff like homework, studying, … you know, all the things you really relish when you’re in a bad mood.  The girls, as always, got up early but I was so tired that I fell back asleep in the middle of their noises.  Next thing I know I’m waking up at 9:00 and Kayla is opening my door to say, “Dad are you ready for breakfast?  Mom made waffles!”  Karis, even though she was “down” and not feeling well had let me sleep very late and made a special breakfast for us.  But that’s not all…

My back has been getting a more and more sore for a while, but Sunday it just “went out.”  I’m not sure exactly what happened, but something made it grab and it still hasn’t really let go.  I was walking around like a 90 year old grandpa on Sunday.  Although it has increased her load because I can hardly even lift Krista,  Karis has been so understanding and, in addition to all her other roles, has now taken on the role of personal trainer working on my back a couple times a day, and helping me stretch it out.  I honestly couldn’t have made it through the last couple days without her help.

What a blessing it is not only to have a wife who loves and serves when it’s easy, but who does it even when it’s difficult.  Like Proverbs 31:29 says, I know that there are many good wives out there, but mine excels above all of them.  Thanks, hon, for your care and service for our family.

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  1. Becky Gravley
    February 18, 2009 at 02:39 | #1

    wow! what a sweet wifey you have. =) i know you love her. praying for you guys. love you all!

  2. Mom
    February 18, 2009 at 03:15 | #2

    You certainly have been blessed with a gem! God has been so good to you, Dan! And I know you would do the same for her! You guys are great examples to both the little eyes that are “watching you” as well as to those who read your posts. There are many out there who would love to have the relationship that you and Karis have. Continue to give to and serve one another. That is what strengthens a marriage.

  3. Kristen Armstrong
    February 18, 2009 at 06:46 | #3

    That is so sweet Dan!! You do have a wonderful wife, and I have a wonderful sister in her as well!!!!! WE will be praying for your back and all! Thanks for the post.

  4. February 18, 2009 at 14:02 | #4

    I love you so much, hon! Being here in Cameroon has added a different dimension of challenge to our marriage, but you’ve been a good leader as we’ve sought to grow in God and in our marriage.

  5. Marilyn Varner
    February 21, 2009 at 07:34 | #5

    Dan, I so agree that you have a wonderful wife, and she is an awesome daughter as well! And I am so thankful that God gave you to be her husband. It’s so good to be getting some blogs from you again! I hope your back is better by now.

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